The power of our words is astounding. When we speak something aloud, it becomes our reality. I had a basketball coach who would chastise my teammates and me whenever we’d talk negatively. If we’d say, “I can’t make a shot,” he would agree and say, “yeah, now you definitely won’t make one because that’s what you believe.” And it was true. Once you articulate something, you manifest it.
This is true for both negative affirmations and positive affirmations.
I recently started reading “The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz. The first agreement is “Be impeccable with your word”. Our words shape our lives. Therefore, I believe positive self-talk is such a beautiful way to show self-love.
Recently, my life coach gave me an exercise: look at your reflection for three minutes and write down every single thought you have.
I procrastinated doing this for a couple days until one morning I caught a glimpse of my reflection and decided it was a good enough time as any to do the exercise.
So I stared at myself for three whole minutes. At first, I was apprehensive. Nothing came to my mind for the first minute and a half. Then, a Glennon Doyle quote popped into my head:
“Make sure when you look into your eyes, you’re looking into the eyes of someone you trust.”
After that, my thoughts mainly concerned my physical features: wild eyebrow hairs, unruly, unwashed hair, and blemishes where my mask rubs against my skin. Then the anxiety came. “I’m doing this wrong! I’m supposed to be having profound thoughts!” But I wasn’t. There was no blueprint or guidelines, just me and my reflection.
I sent my list of random, scattered thoughts to my life coach afterward, and she turned these thoughts into affirmations for me.
Read silently. Then read aloud. Then read aloud while looking in the mirror.
I love trusting myself.
I love my skin. I love my eyebrows.
I love how my body knows just how to take care of itself.
I inhale the breath of life. I exhale ease. (Do this)
I love how my instincts guide me.
I love the person I am.
Overall a pretty good read. Keep up the good work, Kels.
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